When we are born we are handed our beliefs, our rituals, our language and essentially our family values. This becomes our culture, and it’s hard to see life any other way.
Your mission, if you choose to accept it: Don’t let your culture narrowly define you. There are thousands of languages and an unknown number of cultural identities around the world. What makes yours so much better? At least try to understand how and where societies were built and evolved.
Try not to be trapped in your beliefs if they confine you to love only one side. Love all sides that embrace diversity and caring.