I ran into an old acquaintance today – somebody whom we had considered among our “coopetition” within a specific industry back in 2003. He recently (within a year) experienced a tragedy when his wife passed away from cancer. I could tell he was still bereaving. And I couldn’t imagine how this unexpected change effected his and his son’s life.
We talked about whom we’ve kept in touch with, how many of us have changed, and his perception that his life never seems to change, career-wise. He was not lamenting it. Just stating a fact. Although there might have been a hint of regret behind his poker face.
Change can be really unwelcome in our lives. Especially unpredicted change, and tragic loss.
Change can also be the best thing we’ve ever experienced. Sometimes it’s displacing oneself and exploring a new culture – country culture or job culture, or trying a new ‘thing’ (skiing, running, pursing a new degree, having a family, starting a business, etc.)
When I read Agent N’s post about being lucky, I can say this. I’ve always felt fortunate (and I’m not the person she’s referring to)! And I do believe that we can sometimes control our fate, and need to try to the extent that we can.
I am still smiling when I drive to get my daughter at school, or have meetings with clients I like and who like us, or working with friends who are like my family!
Change can be really positive if we take control. Take action!
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