I love movies like The Avengers or Wonder Woman, where superheroes have incredibly tragic, human moments before they are confronted with what to do with their lives. There is a line from Wonder Woman which the character Steve says (played by Chris Pine in the movie). “MY FATHER TOLD ME ONCE, ‘IF YOU SEE SOMETHING WRONG HAPPENING […]
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#RPCL Log Date July 11, 2017 #BeingHuman #ExistentialCrisis #ChangeYourConquest #EmotionalFulfillment
We were having dinner with friends when I was describing a recent story from a therapist about his clients who are stuck 40-something male (company name here) employees seeking counseling. (You can probably insert software or other companies too, but in his case it was all one software company). They can’t quit. The money is too good. […]
#RPCL Log Date July 10, 2017 #BeingHuman #KnowWhatYouDon’tKnow
I was discussing my irritation with a friend about this excuse bandied about in companies. “I don’t know what I don’t know”. Drives me bonkers. Probably because at some point children, you need to just know that you don’t know EVERYTHING. Seriously. And then when you later say, “oops. I didn’t know what I didn’t know” […]
#RPCL Log Date July 9, 2017 #BeingHuman #SlowDown #OneDayAtATime #EveryDayIsAWindingRoad
Language can be so meaningful, or so cliché. I love pop culture for both reasons – you can get deeper meaning in the clichés! So why not heed the one-day-at-a-time TV title or everyday-is-a-winding-road song title? If life were meant to be a quick and straight line, then it wouldn’t be a rich and meaningful […]
#RPCL Log Date July 8, 2017 #BeingHuman #ChooseANewAdventure
Life is full of choices. I know, I know. This is a fairly privileged point of view. And yet even the most privileged can make bad choices. So what do we do with our freedom, to the extent that we have some freedom to move about without a tether? And what do we do when […]
#RPCL Log Date July 7, 2017 #BeingHuman #workerbees #Don’tbeaDrone
I think I am having an epiphany. Could it be that for so long, we have been teaching employees to become drones (as in bees or ants, not in the aerial vehicle drones), so that they don’t have emotional outbursts and challenge authority? Could it be, that instead of learning Emotional Intelligence we are learning to be […]
#RPCL Log Date July 6, 2017 #BeingHuman #FastExitPlan #TheSmartOnes
What’s your fast exit plan? I was talking to some folks ranging in age somewhere between 35 and 50, and learning why they’ve either left or plan to leave their corporate jobs. For the younger end of the range, they decided that corporate America had such a false sense of urgency and clients were making […]
#RPCL Log Date June 20, 2017: #BeingHuman #commonground #reunificationproject #RPCL
Back in December, I decided to blog and post a mission daily in 2017. This journey began as a personal pledge to process our human fallibility and to share it with the world (which started at n=50). Today we’ve almost hit 200 followers, which is more than when we started. Every day we hope to add to our […]
#RPCL Log Date June 12, 2017: #BeingHuman #ClearPointOfView #ProblemSolving
There is nothing more frustrating when a leader finds flaws in their team or company (or country) with no clear path to solutions. What’s lacking? Being curious about the real AND perceived issues, and a clear point of view for solving the problems. You can’t really solve problems you don’t understand. And it takes investigation, […]
#RPCL Log Date June 2, 2017: #BeingHuman #EmbraceGrowth
It’s not enough to know that we are all capable of growth. Your mission, if you choose to accept it: Time to embrace a newer and better normal than what we live today. It’s feeling a little too unpredictable out there. #EmbraceGrowth Be kind. Be safe. Be appropriate. Now go.