I was taking my co-worker through an exercise I’ve used on folks looking for a new career, and two things became immediately evident. One, she has been so mired down in her dissatisfying role, that she’s been asking herself the wrong question. Instead of thinking about what she wants out of life, she is simply […]
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Negotiating Your Salary
Do you feel well compensated for the work you produce, or under compensated? There is a startling statistic that women still make up half the workforce and are paid approximately 70 cents to every dollar paid to men. Moms are paid even less. It doesn’t make sense, until you become one. And you realize that […]
Writing Thank You Notes
Today I finally got to those hand-written thank you notes I had mentioned in an earlier blog. First I sent an email to my contact and set up a follow up call. But that’s not enough. One of the most important things you can do is send handwritten notes. Do you have problems saying thank […]
50 Ways to Leave your Job
I was driving home from work when the song came on the radio “50 Ways to Leave your Lover”. It starts out: The problem is all inside your head, she said to me. The answer is easy if you take it logically. I’d like to help you in your struggle to be free, there must […]
Tip of the Day Issue 2, Blog… Delete!
My personal manifesto, specifically for managing my emotional intelligence, goes like this. Blog about what’s bothering me, or what is a burning thought or emotion. And then, if the email that triggered the bad feelings is still in my inbox, delete it and wash away the memory. In essence, it’s boiled down to two words. […]
The First Interview
Ever have what feels like a pretty good interview, but you arrive just in time and come out of the rain looking like a wet dog? I don’t think it was a strike against me, and the HR manager offered to show me the bathroom so I could at least try and dry off. I […]
Forgiveness
Have you ever been told to hire a director to report to you, and then find out later that he’s meant to take your role and you report to him? It happened to me. And I also unknowingly did the same thing to my first employee before it happened to me. It was a non-profit […]
What Matters Most?
Although I’ll share more of my journey about the 3-part plan later on, I want to share one of my “coffee” meetings which might turn into a job interview. Before I share the results, here’s how I am thinking about the job search and my criteria for a good fit. Top four things that matter […]
Tip of the Day Issue 1
Sometimes, we just need to give ourselves advice, or hear advice from others. Here’s my internal pep talk for the day. Practice non attachment. Don’t let that voice get inside your head and say “but he’s being a jerk”. Just acknowledge it, and move on.
A Guru Always Has the Answers
I just returned from a networking event where a group of Marketing professionals meet for drinks, dinner and a presentation. Fortunately, and as a new member, I run into former clients or current peers with whom we (as a firm) have collaborated. It’s actually a lot of fun (and I say the “actually” part only […]
